Time starved families tell us that after 9/11 they want family travel experiences that build memories and create bonds.

Theme parks and stand-bys like Disney are still perennial favorites, but families today are asking for travel experiences that teach them something about the world. They want travel that deepens their appreciation of each other and helps them understand the world they live in.

We will continually update our Family Travel Section to reflect the kinds of family travel content, links and tips that make family travel not just a vacation, but a memorable family travel experience.
 

Thanks,

Kaleel Sakakeeny

 

 
 

Please select from the following article headlines:


1. The “un-cruise”: Family Travel on the American Queen

2. Grandparents to Go!

3. Calgary Promotes Family Travel With its Stamps of Approval

4. Antigua Adventures…for Families
 


5. An “A” for Family Travel at Alaska’s Alyeska Resort

6. Single Parent Travel

7. Introducing the Single Parent Traveler

8. Shine on Familymoons

 

 


The “un-cruise”: Family Travel on the American Queen
By Kaleel Sakakeeny

When I said good bye to Mary Cook at the end of the trip she made it a point to tell me the trip was too short. “My kids didn’t want to leave,” she said.

When Bruce Nierenberg, newly appointed president of The Delta Queen Steamboat Company (owned by Delaware North Companies), took his three sons on the company’s “laid back” American Queen paddlewheeler last summer, he wasn’t sure what to expect.
After all, he thought, they’re 8, 14 and 17, and very used to computers, gameboys, TV and the other “necessities” of modern life.
“But you know,” he said, “we played board games together, ate dinner as a family, and had a chance to connect with each other.”
When the cruise ended, Nierenberg was happy to report that his kids told him it was the best trip they’d ever taken. “And,” he adds, “my kids are pretty sophisticated.”

Nierenberg knew he had a winner, so, he created the company’s signature Riverbonding program, which was launched just this June. And according to those who have experienced it, including myself, it’s a big success.
The concept of the product is deceptively simple but very challenging: “unplug” kids and parents from their computers, video games, TV’s and hectic daily lives, freeing them to bond on the river.
And the American Queen is a near-perfect venue.
It’s the archetypical Mississippi steamboat, every kid’s (and grown-up’s) image of what a Huck Finn river steamer should look like.
There’s the iconic big, red paddle wheel; the bright, white gingerbread lace work; the gold-burnished calliope on the top deck and the fluted smokestacks.

It’s a classic…a boat Mark Twain would be proud of.

But it’s more than the design and late 1800’s Americana elegance that worked for Tom and Mary Cook from California.
They and their children, Paul (7) and Rosemary (9) were building kites on the top deck, and waiting for a Mississippi breeze to carry the kites away.

The couple honeymooned on the smaller Delta Queen eleven years ago, Mary said, so when they heard about the Riverbonding program in the Paddlewheeler Newsletter sent to clients, they jumped at the chance to do it.
“Why would we take a cruise on Disney or some other cruise where they take our kids, keep them busy all day, bombard them with so many activities?” she asked.
“We work all day, the kids are in school…we want to just sit together on a rocker and watch the river go by or fly a kite together. Childhood’s too brief.”

Of course there’s more to do than just watch the river go by, but most of the families I spoke to were fascinated by the “old fashioned” steamer, with it s antique décor and period touches like the turn-of-the-century “3-D”viewfinders, clubby game room and the many nooks and crannies to explore.

Daily activities are laid out in the Steamboatin’ Times delivered nightly to the staterooms, and there’s also a Riverbonding Junior Steamboatin’ Times, highlighting special attractions for the kids.
Some family favorites:
• Mardi Gras mask making…very colorful.
• Kite making and flying, very challenging.
• The chance to become a Cub Pilot by taking a knot-tying class, touring the Pilothouse and querying the captain about navigating the river.
• Daily talks with the Riverlorian in the Chart Room or Engine Room to learn about life on the Mississippi.
• Standing by the rail and watching the bayous, tug boats and barges pass by.
There are ice cream socials, ping-pong tournaments, lots of crafts classes and a pajama party in the old-fashioned movie theater.
Family meals together was a big hit.

The interaction between the servers and families in the rococo, gilded dining room was a pleasant surprise.
Most of the children enjoyed ordering from the menu just like their parents, but for those that didn’t, there was a Kids’ Menu.
Kathy (15) from North Carolina said that she’d never done anything like this before. “I mean sitting at a table with strangers and I feel like I’ve known them for years!”

The American Queen’s six decks hold 436 passengers, and although it’s lots bigger than the raft that carried Huck and Jim on their Mississippi adventures, the intimacy and charm of the boat do capture the excitement and camaraderie of life on the mighty Mississippi.
When I said good bye to Mary Cook at the end of the trip she made it a point to tell me the trip was too short. “My kids didn’t want to leave,” she said.


The Riverbonding package
• Available on the Mississippi Queen and American Queen during June, July and August and school holidays in November and December.
• The American Queen has a fixed, 3-4 day stage length, typically Mon-Friday; Sunday-Thursday, depart/return New Orleans.
• Kids get to choose two games per stateroom (from a list of 20) which they keep.
• Nightly milk and cookies delivered to the room from the captain.
• “Early Bookers” receive progressive discounts ranging from 2-for-1 pricing, to 25% off to 10% off…or free airfare.
Early Booking dates are listed in the 2004/2005 Delta Queen Steamboat Company brochure.
• Children under 18 cruise free.
• Prices start at $970.00 for a family of three for the 3-night vacation, booked at 2-for-1 rate. These dates are posted in the brochure or on line.
• Families with two or more children receive a second room of equal or lesser value for free…with room purchased at full price, again within the “early booking” dates.

Staterooms and Statistics
• American Queen has 222 staterooms (75% outside) and 7 stateroom categories.
• Cabins categories range from AAA-E and G-I, including single, double and triple occupancy.
• Several staterooms are designed to accommodate mobility-impaired passengers.
Double Occupancy Staterooms
• Americana themed
• Well-placed, “antique-shaded, cut glass” lighting fixtures.
• Rich wooden décor , lots of oak, Victorian wallpaper, plush chairs, full-bath (tub and shower), good closet space, small hall way and several mirrors.
• Approximately 10x12’
• Controllable A/C
• Recessed controllable radio for news, ship news and music.

Additional information
www.DeltaQueen.com



Shore Excursions
The shore excursions provide a cross-section of information and entertainment about life on the Mississippi and surrounding culture.
Three favorites:
1) Music, Mistresses and Marriage
• Best for older kids, the tour is a trip to an 1800’s cotton plantation and the way of life of the slaves who worked it.
• The fun part is grabbing a tambourine and singing the Gospel and Blues songs led by a couple of pros with beautiful voices.
2) In Baton Rouge, the tour of the USS KIDD, a perfectly restored World War II destroyer, was a big hit.
3) A Child’s Day on the Plantation was foot-stomping introduction to Cajun music and dance at the Rural Life Museum, a 19th century working plantation.
Led by a handful of authentic, music-playing, Cajun-talking (and dancing) women, men and young girls, we guests were invited to “talk Cajun” and learn the dances.
• Later, there was a tour of plantation, including an introduction to a couple of 400 year-old turtles.


 

Grandparents to Go!
By Kaleel Sakakeeny

With 65% of Americans over age 48 already a grandparent, and 95,000 Americans becoming new grandparents every month, it’s obvious why inter- or multi-generational travel is on the rise.

No more leaving the kids with The Grandparents. Today the grandparents are on the road…and taking the grandkids with them.

When Helena Koenig, owner and president of Grandtravel in Chevy Chase, MD., offered her first trip for grandparents and their grandkids back in 1987, she had thirty takers for her 4 itineraries.

Today, the pioneer of Grandtravel offers twenty trips to upwards of four hundred grandfamilies, and her business just keeps growing.
Koenig’s philosophy is simple but compelling: Today's grandparents live more active and independent lives than did their own, and are looking for creative ways to strengthen ties with their grandchildren.

“So, why not,” she says, “offer an exciting idea – travel together as Grandtravelers!”

With 65% of Americans over age 48 already a grandparent, and 95,000 Americans becoming new grandparents every month, it’s obvious why inter- or multi-generational travel is on the rise.
After five trips with Grandtravel, George Martin in Mocksville, NC., can’t wait for the next one and he says he may have to rent a grandchild.

Koenig and her staff realize that grandparents and their younger charges have decidedly different emotional and physical needs, so the company’s itineraries feature activities that the grandchildren will enjoy with other grandchildren…but there are also activities marked “Grandparents Only.”

Grandtravel offers a wide range of national and international trips designed by educators and travel specialists to balance the needs and stimulate the sense of adventure of these intergenerational travelers.
Koenig has just launched First Tours with itineraries exclusively for parents and children.

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Who Can Go?
Grandchildren of any age, but ages 7 to 17 are ideal.

Accommodations & Meals
• Most meals are provided
• Grandtravelers can share rooms, opt for adjoining rooms when available or separate ones. Most are doubles, but extra beds are usually available.


Book It!
800-247-7651
www.grandtrvl.com


 
Calgary Promotes Family Travel With its Stamps of Approval
By Kaleel Sakakeeny

“We want to be sure families are as welcome in Calgary as any other kind of guest!”

At first glance, Calgary, Alberta (Canada) looks like any other big city, another bustling metropolis.
But a closer look reveals a kinder, gentler city, and one of the few, anywhere to actually have an office called Child and Youth Friendly Calgary (CYFC www.childfriendly.ab.ca).
“Child and Youth Friendly Calgary was designed to promote Calgary as a very family-receptive, family-friendly destination,” says Wendy Kennelly, Communication’s Director for the organization.
“We want to be sure families are as welcome in Calgary as any other kind of guest!”
Their bright web site is a terrific resource for families seeking restaurants, accommodations, attractions with the “stamp of approval” from the CYFC.

“The image of a happy sun, brightly shining on a mountain top in our Family Guides,” indicates attractions that have met strict family-child friendly standards,” Kennelly said.
But as one official told me, the clever logos are really “badges of courage,” because suppliers have to work exceptionally hard to earn them.

Organizers of the accreditation program, started in 1992, say it’s the first of its kind in North America.
And the CYF does more than pay lip service to its process of rating and evaluating of attractions, hotels, restaurants and other visitor facilities.

They send teams of about eight Calgary kids to inspect and evaluate properties.
Kennelly says the kids range in age from 4-15, and are accompanied by a staff member. “Their job,” she says, “is to come up with a report card that grades a hotel or attractions in terms of its services and amenities.”

A restaurant, for example, can’t just have the same old kids’ menu.
The team has to find the food exciting and healthy too.
There are a few tales of successful business people “sweating it out” as the team judges whether the toilet bowl is too low (or high) in an otherwise deluxe hotel room, or if the coffee maker is too close to the bed and can be accidentally jarred causing burns.
Jeff Hessel, Director of Public Relations at the Calgary Science Center recalls his accreditation visits when teens and younger kids came to check-out the exhibits.

They later went on the radio, he says, and discussed their findings. “It was tough, and you never know what they’re going to say!”

Calgary is a young city, so the family emphasis makes sense.
The average age is between 30-35, which may explain why so many young families were “out and about” walking the city’s broad streets and taking advantage of its attractions.

Even the airport manages to take the stress (and boredom) out of traveling with its Spaceport, a high-tech entertainment and educational facility that combines aviation, space exploration with telecommunications technology.
Kidsport, a departures-level play area, has a mini jumbo jet, TV/playroom combination, a child-height washroom and a nursing room for mothers.

Cleverly, Calgary designated the downtown area as a “free fare zone,” meaning the modern, comfortable street cars ( C-Train) are free, which makes it easy and inexpensive for families to explore the city.

They often take the train one-way, then enjoy the five -block walk back along fashionable, Stephen Avenue Mall.
This pedestrian-only street is festooned with hanging flowers and lined with specialty shops, pubs and restaurants.

Tables spill onto the sidewalk.
There are kooky sculptures that spout music from hidden speakers, and in bad weather, the shops, restaurants and offices are accessible through a glassed-in walk way (Plus 15) that connects the whole thing.

Calgary, like Denver, bills itself as “the gateway to the Rockies.” And the mountains form an impressive backdrop to the miles of plains that surround the city.
But there’s plenty to do in the city itself, especially in the summer when it stays light until 10:15 or so.

Calgary’s Big Attraction…and Agent Commission Deals
Calgary’s defining event is the Calgary Stampede, a 10-day extravagant celebration of everything western.
Every July, the Stampede literally takes over the city and fills the streets with cowboys and wannabe cowboys, free pancake breakfasts, parades, square dancing , lots of cowboy outfits and a touch of western madness.
• Look for the Chuckwagon races, ($600,000 to the winner), bareback riding, calf-roping, steer wrestling and, yes, bull riding.
• Lots of trade booths, stunt teams, parades, bands, floats… every thing western.
• The web site (www.calgarystampede.com 1-800-661-1260) lists general information and commissionable Travel Packages with names like Grin With Your Kin; Cattle, Rattle, Paddle and Saddle Package.
• The company Creative Western runs the travel/accommodations package for the Stampede, and will customize packages for agents.
E-Mail: calarystampede@creativewestern.com


A major family Calgary event is the International Children’s Festival (403-294-7414 www.calgarychildfest.org)
Every May (24-28, 2005) this popular springtime festival features performances from all over the world.
Music from Africa, China and Ecuador mix with stories from many countries designed to link children to cultures beyond their borders, heightening global awareness.
Very popular.


Selling Points
• Calgary is a jumping off point for day trips to the Canadian Rockies and the resort towns of Banff and Lake Louise.
• The Western themes and Cowboy Trails are strong lures for kids and parents.
• The Child and Youth Friendly Calgary web site and Guide take all of the guess work out of planning a family vacation in Calgary and the Rockies. www.childfriendly.ab.ca
• Alberta is the only province in Canada with no provincial sales tax, a savings of 5-10% above favorable US dollar exchange rate

Reservations:
(800) 896-6878 . Rate code ECEQ. Oct 30, 2004-January 30, 2005
Calgary Marriott
110 9th Avenue SE Calgary, Alberta T2G 5A6
www.marriott.com


 
Antigua Adventures…for Families
By Kaleel Sakakeeny

But the Jolly Kidz Club, a rainbow-hued fun-house on the beach is the heart of this all inclusive family program.


The litmus test on just how receptive a family destination actually is to families takes place first at the airport. So when the female immigration officer in the orange-sherbet colored arrival hall of the Antigua-Barbuda airport took a family of six (four children and two parents) in hand, and laughingly expedited their passage through officialdom, I was encouraged.
Their back packs in place, the parents greatly relieved, they were heading to Jolly Beach Resort. Others were heading to Hawskbill Beach Resort, two properties with defined and well-functioning Family Travel Package and
Programs.

Unfortunately I couldn’t see the kids’ reactions to the meandering herds of sheep and goat (with a few cows to liven the mix) that hang out the road to the resorts, and meander just a few feet from the airport
Hawksbill Resort, fifteen minutes from the airport and St. Johns (Antigua’s capital), is a series of tropically furnished, comfortable, open-air style, white bungalows on an arc of land that forms natural coves and four beaches. The bungalows feature the gingerbread design characteristic of the Caribbean, and between them and the water lies a broad expanse of grassy land and palm trees, ideal for family gatherings or games.

Peter Ramratan, the General Manager, and father of three, says that the family market is “very untapped” in the Caribbean. “It really needs to be promoted,” he told me, “and we’d like to take the lead in promoting it.” Ramratan points proudly to the number of multi-generational family members that come here, most of them for repeat visits. “We have grandparents, parents, grandchildren here because it’s such a private getaway with the small coves, four beaches and “comfort level’.”
Ringed by mini-mountains and studded with lots of flowering bushes, and bright Bougainvillea, Hawksbill is a very unpretentious place.
And it’s a very secluded thirty-seven acres.
There’s a small pool, a tennis court, patio restaurant…and tea time. The open air bar and dining room sits on a hill and may have some of the best views anywhere on the island.

Ask Georgina, an 8 year old from Surrey, England. She’s here with her parents and some school chums, and she “loves it,” she told me. “It’s so pretty.” She especially likes playing table tennis on the beach and “buying things” at the Sugar Mill Boutique, an authentic stone sugar mill from when sugar was king here. Today it’s a cleverly redesigned shop selling local crafts and “treats.”
Arlene Marsh, Marketing Coordinator, says most of the clients come from the UK because the company that owns the 37-acre resort, Kuoni Travel in Switzerland, markets mainly there. Kuoni also owns Discover Bay in Barbados. She and Ramratan are eager to attract the US market, she says. “Seventy percent of our booking come through Travel Agents or Tour Operators,” she adds. “While the Internet gives people instant access, we are seeing more and more that in today’s market, people want someone they can trust, someone with experience, and that’s a good agent or operator.”
The family market is so crucial to Hawskbill, Ramratan said the resort plans to go “all inclusive” in December in a bid to attract more families.

The Package: Hawksbill Family Club. Through November 30
Features:
• 3 Nights/4 days for $450.00 per room, d/o
• 1 child under 12 stays free in same room w/2 adults.
• Second child under 12 pays $35.00 per night
• Children 12-16 pay $60.00 per child; per night. Maximum of four people per room.
• Adjoining room for 2 children $225.00 for the entire stay
• Complimentary breakfast for all people in the room
• Free use of non-motorized water sports e.g., kayaking; sailing.
• Baby sitting available for $5.00 per hour (not per child) for up to two children.
• Kids eat for $12.00 a meal. All meals are served buffet style.

Accommodations
• Standard room w/2doubles. Garden View. No a/c. Fans. West Indies-style décor…tropical prints.
Includes:
• 3 Nights/4 days for $450.00 per room, d/o
• 1 child under 12 stays free in same room w/2 adults.
• Children 12-16 pay $60.00 per child; per night. Maximum of four people per room.
• Adjoining room for 2 children $225.00 for the entire stay
• Complimentary breakfast for all people in the room
• Free use of non-motorized water sports e.g., kayaking; sailing
• Baby sitting available for $5.00 per hour for up to two children. One price.
• Kids eat for $12.00 a meal and can chose menu item in advance.
• One hundred eleven room property

Best Deal: Upgrade:
• $30.00 a night buys an upgrade to one of the attractive beach bungalows with separate, connecting room. On the beach w/a/c; coffee maker; min-fridge, phone.
Family Program:
Organized activities for kids are mostly seasonal: Santa arriving on water skis during Christmas; Easter Egg hunts at Easter.
• Ten kids or more triggers a more ‘”formal” program.
• NB: The resort provides free sailing lessons, water skiing, wind surfing until the sport is “mastered,” then it’s $10.00 an hour.
• The Social Desk offers commissionable island activities like Jeep Safaris and Eco-Adventures.
• Cricket lessons on Saturday often with Germans, American and UK guests
Vs. the staff

BOOK IT
• 268-462-0301 Fax: 268-462-1515
www.hawksbill.com E-mail: hawskbill@candw.org


Jolly Beach Resort is as energetic as Hawksbill is “laid back.” The sprawling 462 room all inclusive sits on 40 acres of land and mile long sweep of impressive beach. This is a place for active families looking for lots to do including the Oasis Disco for kids 16 and older.
Ted Isaac, General Manager, says he and his partners (Jolly Beach is privately owned by Antiguans) heeded the advice of their guests, past and present, who told them they needed a family travel product, an opinion reinforced by many tour operators, Isaac said.
“We completed a 13 million dollar renovation,” he adds, “and now we’re ready to attract our most important clientele, the under 12 set.”
To prove their point, within the last month Isaac and his executive team created a new program for the US market: Grab The Kids and Go!, popular in the UK, but not introduced I the US until now.

Sprawling as it is, Jolly Beach is sculptured into small pockets of activities, creating several mini-oases that make the size manageable, and privacy possible.
Flowered walkways connect buildings and beaches, and the blue, white and tropical design works well with the island’s environment. One of the two pools has a waterfall that’s a magnet for kids.

But the Jolly Kidz Club, a rainbow-hued fun-house on the beach is the heart of this all inclusive family program.

Shawnette Francis, the energetic Kidz Club coordinator, says a favorite activity is teaching kids (and their parents) how to “speak Antiguan.” There are lots of laughs as German, British, French and American kids (and grown ups) learn the lilting, tongue-twisting argot of the island where “It’s funny” becomes “Dis sweet me bad!”

But if one can’t “talk the talk,” Kidz Clubbers also play Rounders (a British game similar to baseball and popular in Antigua), make postcards based on Antiguan life, play Bocce, volley ball, Tye-dye T-shirts compete in Hula Hoop contests, and make eco-oriented arts and crafts from beach shells.
Evenings there’s family entertainment presenting “fire eaters,” or a steel band, and on weekends, rousing, international games of Beach Soccer
There were as many families as non-families, and they came in ages from 3-year olds to teens and grandparents. Families were in the classier restaurants…or eating a burger while they played pool, or a pickup game of soccer on the beach, girls included.

Best of all, there was no unruly behavior for such a big property, and staff and families connected exceptionally well.
• Kidz Club is open 9-5, daily and is for children 3-13, though older children often show up to help with the younger ones and enjoy the activities.
• The program is included in the package price, as is use of Sunfish, Hobie Cats, wind-surfing, pedal boats and kayaks.
• Staff will take children to lunch if other arrangements have not been made

Grab the Kids and Go!
• Superior Queen Room w/2 Queen beds w/a/c; TV; phone; mini-fridge; hair dryer, balcony and ocean view
• Children up to two years always stay free.
• One child 3-11 stays free; additional child 3-11 pays $40.00 Maximum of four people per room.
• Twelve and older pay adult price.
• Complimentary crib or cot available when reserved in advanced

Cost: $170.00 per adult per night through December 20, 2003
Includes;
• All house brand beverages
• All meals except supplemental items like lobster.
• All non-motorized sports; gym; disco; entertainment; use of guest games and facilities
• Participation in the Jolly Kidz Club
• The 18 percent tax and gratuities

Book It
• 954-653-0191 (Caribbean Resorts. Florida) Property: 268-462-0061. Fax: 268 562-2302
www.jollybeachresort.com on line booking
• E-mail: info@jollybeachresort.com




 
An “A” for Family Travel at Alaska’s Alyeska Resort
By Kaleel Sakakeeny

“The family friendly and helpful attitude of the staff are a big selling point. They’ll arrange any kind of Alaska adventure for you, however minor, so my clients get the wilderness they want but the luxuries too.”
Travel Agent


From the glass enclosed tram gliding silently up the 2,300 foot Glacier Terminal the Alyeska (Alley-Eska) Resort is impressive: a solitary gem in the dramatic setting of sculptured mountains and rugged peaks. Nestled in the impressive Glacier Valley, adjacent to the Turnagain Arm of Cook Inlet and surrounded by the Chugach Mountains, Alyeska is about 40 miles south of Anchorage. It’s a short drive along the Seward Highway, but one long on beauty. National Geographic Magazine dubbed the drive one of the nation’s top ten scenic byways, and lucky visitors can spot playful Beluga Whales and Dall sheep.

Up close and personal, the 307-room, chateau-styled Alyeska Prince Hotel, the resort’s crown jewel, combines Alaskan wilderness with four-diamond luxury. And that, according to travel agent Karen Seifer at Micris Travel in Commack, NY, is exactly what makes Alyeska so compelling to families. “It’s the one place I book people into and never get yelled at,” she said. “We can’t go wrong. People come to Alaska for a wilderness experience, the kind they see on the videos, and Alyeska gives them that. At the same time, it’s accessible for families, has an excellent concierge service and offers the kind of luxury that makes guests feel pampered.”

One of eighty-seven, Japan-based Prince hotels, Alyeska boasts an unusually friendly staff and conveniences that include a range of shops, fireplace-heated lounges, comfortable sitting rooms, ski and gift boutiques. The cherry wood lobby has a diorama that changes texture and shape every seven minutes as the lights shift, illuminating different features of the Alaskan landscape. Of course there’s the obligatory stuffed bear.

Seifer says her families especially like the connecting rooms the suites and restaurants, but, she adds, “the family friendly and helpful attitude of the staff are a big selling point. They’ll arrange any kind of Alaska adventure for you, however minor, so my clients get the wilderness they want but the luxuries too.”
Seifer strongly recommends agents book Alyeska as an “ideal pre or post cruise extension.” Because Seward, where many cruise ships turn after the Vancouver-Inside Passage journey, is only an hour or so away, an Alyeska booking is a natural summer or winter family add-on. Guests can take the short train ride from Seward to Girwood and get picked up by Alyeska, or travel by motor coach from their cruise ship. Or make the short drive from Anchorage.

The resort receives about 782 inches of snow on average Still most people don’t think of Alaska as a ski destination. So the good news is that the resort boasts both short lift lines (nine of them) and smaller crowds, always a boon for families. The trail systems for both night skiing and world-class day skiing are comprehensive with 2,000 feet of lighted, vertical terrain…and 68 runs, most of which are perfect for intermediates. And there’s also snowboarding, snowshoeing, Nordic skiing, heli-skiing and dog sledding.

However tempting it is to think of Alyeska as a winter family vacation, with summer temperatures averaging 60-75 degrees ( a happy accident of its proximity to the Gulf of Alaska and warm Pacific Ocean currents) it’s very much a summer family vacation destination too. The Levine and Gounis families, both of Long Island, have two sets of kids; 8 and 12; 17 and 14. For them, the horseback riding and hikes were the best. The food, of course placed very high, and the aerial tram? In their own words, “Who gets to do that everyday. Except here!”

Winter or summer, the views from the rooms are exceptional.
Ringed by the Chugach Mountain range with its impressive glaciers, and set among the tall pine trees of an actual rain forest, the Alyeska Prince promotes all this with a savvy family travel deal: the Summer Simple Pleasures Package ( June 1-September 30. See below), which takes full advantage of the resorts location on 1,500 acres and the long summer nights.
“Family Travel is vital to our business,” says Melissa Tyler, Director of Marketing at Alyeska. “In fact, we’re increasingly concentrating on the family travel market and are developing more and more programs for this market for both summer and winter.”
Tyler says that about 50% of their business is from travel agents, a figure she hopes to increase by making more innovative family travel packages available for agents to sell as the land component of an Alaska cruise… and as a stand alone destination. “We have it all,” she says. And as one mom said, “ I feel very safe here. We have towns nearby, all this nature, activities, but mostly I don’t have to worry about my kids here. They can come, go, have fun and I know they’re fine.”

Alyeska has several restaurants from the casual to the more formal which features game ands seafood specials. The 7 Glaciers Restaurant is 2,300 feet above sea level with a spectacular view.

The Package (June 1-September 30)
The Summer Simple Pleasures Package includes:
• No resort fee
• Standard room with 2 double beds or one king, approximately 216 square feet, for two nights
• Children 17 and under stay free
• Kids seven and under ski/tram ride free when accompanied by an adult
• Choice of four tickets on the Alyeska Tramway or bicycle rental for four
• Heated towel racks
• Complimentary in-room movie
Amenities include:
• External room doorbell
• Bedside controls for lights and “Do Not Disturb: sign
TV with pay-per-view
• Wireless Internet connection via TV
• Coffee maker, iron, iron board and safe
• Mini-refrigerator
• Two bathrobes and slippers
And uninterrupted views of the mountains and rainforest
Cost: $329.00 per room for two nights. Total cost
Upgrade: Junior Suite for $40.00 with double beds or one king, some with connecting rooms.
Additional Beds and Cribs: Available for $25.00 (rollaway bed); $10.00 for cribs. One time charge only.
Baby sitting and community day care available.

Guest Special
Alyeska offers its guests a special Northern Lights wake up call. From late August through mid-April, guests can opt to be called to view the Northern Lights. Robes and slippers are provided.

Included Summer Activities
Complimentary family activities include:
• Special Guided nature walks and hikes with local naturalists
• Access to extensive bike paths
• Use of pool, sauna, full-equipped fitness room, hot tub, Jacuzzi, and board games
• Blueberry walks and blueberry picking, arts and crafts activities, live music and lots wildlife sightings
• Summer glacial snowshoeing.
• Planned is a family pavilion with live music, cookouts and summer games.
Bike and snowshoe rentals are extra.


Book It!
1-800-880-3880
www.alyeskaresort.com E-mail: rooms@alyeskaresort.com


Attractive Commissionable Family Add-Ons.
• Kenai Fjords Tours (March 22-October 5 907/276-6249. 800 478 8068 www.kenaifjords.com), combines a journey on The Alaska Railroad with a dome car providing 360° views. and the Kenai Fjords National Park Tour.
Puffins, eagles, sea lions, Humpback and Minke whales and the Aialik Glacier are the attractions.
Meals are included.
Commissionable at 10%
• Alpine Air. Flight seeing, Fixed wing and Helli tours 907-783-2360
• Class V Whitewater. Rafting, Kayaking, Fishing 907 783 2004
• Chugach Express.. Dog sledding and Kennel Tours. New: Summer dog sledding on glaciers. 907-783-2266
• Crow Creek Mine. Panning for gold and sightseeing 907-278-8061
Lifetime Adventures. ATV, Biking; Kayaking. 907-746-4644

Family Favorite Hot Tip
• Alaska SeaLife Center (Seward 800-224-2525 www.alaskasealife.org) No sea-life tricks and games, but easily one of the most visually exciting and educationally sound, working “sea museum” anywhere. Agent discount of 20% to be passed on to clients or kept as commissions. Families will appreciate this suggestion. On Resurrection Bay.

Nearby Family Favorite Attractions: Anchorage
Alaska Native Heritage Center (800-315-6608 www.alaskanative.net ). A small, authentic collection of Native Alaskan crafts and history. Interesting performances include story telling, native dance lessons and village site tours.
• H2Oasis (www.h2oasiswaterpark.com) Opening in late April, this is Alaska’s only water park.
• Anchorage Museum of Art and History (907-343-4326 www.ancchoragemuseum.org.com) A terrific children’s museum with innovative exhibits like Toys and Games in Art and Found Objects. Parents will like the airy, open presentation of Alaskan art, history and culture.

 
 Single Parent Travel
By Kaleel Sakakeeny
 

 “The kids had a great time at family-oriented resorts,” she said, “but I was alone”. Most of the guests either were couples or had no kids and didn’t want my company. It was a pretty lonely experience.”


The “bad” news is that the number of single parents seeking quality vacations with their children is growing. The good news (for the industry) is that the number of single parents seeking quality vacations with their children is growing.

For Sharyn Saffan, founder and owner of Quality Time Travel in Commack, New York, business has never been better.
Becoming a single mom with two young boys seven years ago was a rude awakening. It hurt that her circle of friends had suddenly changed, and it bothered her that when she was on vacation with her two boys, she had no one to talk to or “hang out” with. “The kids had a great time at family-oriented resorts,” she said, “but I was alone”. Most of the guests either were couples or had no kids and didn’t want my company. It was a pretty lonely experience.”
Undaunted, Saffan, who was working for a travel agent at the time, started Quality Time Travel and dedicated her company to helping single parents (the majority being moms)plan quality vacations. A big part of these trips is being sure single parents meet other single parents, while insuring both kids and moms have a terrific time…together and individually”.

But it wasn’t easy.

“I spent years talking to groups, asking friends for names of friends, creating incentives to get potential clients before I opened my doors,” she says. “Now I have a mailing list of more than 2000 single parents and stay in very close contact with them by email blasts, the internet, regular mailings…whatever it takes.”
By far, cruises are the most popular product for single parents, she points out, because there’s so much for the kids to do day and night, that the single moms or dad get their chance to meet and mingle.

But the “meeting and mingling” isn’t accidental.

Saffan works hard behind the scenes at creating a private room for a cocktail party for her groups of about twenty. Or she’ll reserve a space by the pool at an all-inclusive, the second type of preferred vacation for single parents, and have simultaneous activities for the kids.

She’ll arrange a game or two with prizes, throw a private barbeque… and be sure the single parents sit together at dinner.
This worked for Bonnie Burton of Westchester, NY. Burton began traveling when her son was 6 and her daughter, 3.
Four trips later, all with Quality, they give the company high marks. “Whenever we plan a trip, my kids always ask me, ‘can we go with Quality?’”

Because not every client needs or wants “togetherness” all the time, Saffan designs travel so clients can come and go as they prefer. But the majority buy into the routine of being together and doing the same things.

“We’ve had a few marriages come of my trips, and many really long-lasting friendships,” she laughs.

Although cruises are extremely attractive to single parents, apparently clients seldom are comfortable traveling farther than the Caribbean or Mexico, often because of custodial issues. But also, she says, there seems to be a distance thing that “kicks in.” “This far and no farther.”

Quality Time organizes about twelve trips a year, and lately they’ve been booking individual trips for single parents who want to travel with their kids, but don’t necessarily want be part of a group.
“As a travel agent, I know my clients and product,” she says. “I know which destinations and which activities work for single parents.”
Quality Time Travel
PO BOX 1141
Commack, NY 11725
888 758 9386
631 543 4009
www.qualitytimetravel.com
travelinquiries@qualitytimetravel.com

Sally Black, President of Vacationkids.com (Kunkletown, PA), has heard all the complaints before. So, working exclusively via the Internet, Sally tries to make the world of travel a better place for single parents.
For example, she’s consulted with Beaches, successfully getting the resort chain to waive its single supplement fee, long a vexation to single parents. Although the waiver is for certain times of the year,
Black sees this as a major coup for single parents who feel the adult, double-occupancy rule is discriminatory.
Vacationkids.com also consults to, and provides the family travel content for such giants as Smarterliving.com’s family travel channel, MSNBC’s Budget Travel and About.com’s family-travel channels.

And business is good and getting better.

In the four years they’ve been open, the company is already projecting between 1.5 to 2 million in revenue…not bad, she laughs, for 8 moms working in a basement.
Sally and her band of eight moms, travel agents all, don’t actually work in their basement, but they do work in their homes, and several of them are or have been single moms.

“We handle the kind of travel that other travel agents don’t want to handle,” says Black, “the quirky stuff.”

She’s living proof that not every family falls into the stereotypical mold of “two adults and two kids,” a model, she says, the travel industry has unfortunately taken to heart when it deals with the Family Travel market.
“For example, when I remarried,” Black tells me, “my husband and
I wanted to take our kids on our honeymoon…we called it a ‘Familymoon.’ Know any travel agent that could handle that one?

And how about the family with three kids who don’t want separate rooms. What about them?”

They book packages mostly. But for the single mom or dad that wants a Harry Potter trip to London or a beach vacation with his or her kids, the “basement moms” come up with itineraries that are single-parent friendly at all levels…including costs, and the chance to meet other, like-minded single parents.
www.vacationkids.com
RR1 Box 1044
Kunkleton, PA 18058
610 681 7360
mom@vacationkids.com
 

Introducing the Single Parent Traveler
By Kaleel Sakakeeny

Brenda Elwell is a single mom who’s traveled solo with her kids for twenty years, but chafed under the realization that she and single parents as a group were “woefully neglected by the travel industry.”
She says that travel suppliers make the same mistake: they assume the needs and desires of single adults traveling with kids are the same as double-parent families.

So, Elwell did something about the problem: she wrote what may be the definitive book on single parent travel: The Single Parent Travel Handbook (GlobalBrenda Publishing, Secaucus, NJ, 2002, www.Globalbrenda.com) covering everything from Documents and Vaccinations to Planning, Money Matters and the trip itself.
After completing her CTC thesis on Marketing Travel to the Single Parent, she opened her own single parent travel company: Single Parent Tours.
Family Travel Editor, Kaleel Sakakeeny, talked with Ms. Elwell about the needs of growing single parent market.

Go Travel: You say that more than one-quarter of all US households with children are headed by a single parent. But how does this translate into numbers?

BE: Well, that means there are 16.5 million single parent households in this country, and many more non-custodial single parents. And that doesn’t even include married adults traveling alone with their kids, or how about single grandparents and their kids? Then add to that gays who have been adopting children, but often travel alone with the child. This is a huge “non traditional” market.

Go Travel: Obviously Single Travelers are different from Single Parent Travelers. They have a lot in common but still have different needs.

BE: Single parents, by necessity, are working parents. As such, when they vacation with their child or children, they want to spend quality time and fun time with them, not escape from them. Single parents are not part of a couple nor are they "swinging singles." They are looking for family activities that both parent and child can enjoy doing together.

Go Travel: But what specifically do these Single Parents want that they’re not getting presently from the travel industry?

BE: The single biggest need is to eliminate or at least reduce the so-called “single supplement charge”. That amounts to penalizing a person just because he or she is single.
About a year ago, for example, Sandals Hotel contacted me to help them develop a single parent family program for their family-oriented Beaches properties. Their previous attempts at attracting single parent families were unsuccessful.
I told them to do 3 things:
1) Eliminate the single supplement.
2) Create family fun activities that kids and adults do together.
3) Create activities where the adults can interact together as adults
(such as a cocktail party) while the kids are busy being entertained
separately at, say, a pizza party.

Beaches reduced the price of their rooms for us, and they did so substantially. This in my mind is equivalent to eliminating the “single supplement” if that’s the term we want to use.
Beaches selected a “soft” week, the last week of August to promote their Single Parent Week.
Working together, Beaches Hotels and Single Parent Tours (my company) marketed the special. Forty-two single parent families participated. (41 single moms and one very happy single parent dad).

Go Travel: But didn’t Beaches lose money?

BE: Actually, any loss was more than offset by the gain in revenue by selling many more rooms than normally would be sold during that off-week.
Plus they attracted a new travel group, single parents, who won’t forget. And of course they generated lots of good will, and who knows, maybe their kids will vacation at Beaches when they grow up!

Go Travel: So it obviously worked?

BE: Yes it did. The atmosphere was very celebratory. Without exception, all the single parents and their kids had a wonderful time and many new friendships were formed as families discovered they lived in the same city, such as New York City or Los Angeles.

Go Travel: What’s the profile of these single parents, I mean income level, background and mostly, what are their travel patterns?

BE: These single parents come from all income brackets, but typically they’re between 30 and 50 years old, and take one to two vacations a year. The majority, two-thirds, fly to their destination and the other third drive

Go Travel: Without revealing your own trade secrets, how can travel agents best sell to this market and address these issues?

BE Obviously the first thing is to be sensitive to this market’s needs as we discussed. From a marketing point of view, I’d look into www.parentswithoutpartners.org and check them out. I also find churches and synagogues are a rich source of clients because they often strongly promote single parent events and groups.
Or (she laughs) agents can come to us.

Single Parent Tours (877-G0-SPT www.singleparenttours.com) right here in Secaucus, NJ.


Shine on Familymoons

 

Chrissy and Herb Strickland from Florida were getting married.

But this time, a second marriage for both, it wasn’t just between them. They had kids from their previous marriages and there was no way, Chrissy says, that she and Herb were starting their new lives with out the children being involved.

In fact, the Stricklands opted to involve their extended families as well as their children in both the wedding and the honeymoon: a Familymoon.

“Herb and I were not the only people getting married that day,” she said. “All of us were committed, and all of us were joining together. “You know,” she laughs lightly, “my ring has five diamonds on it, one for each of our children.”

The Familymoon seems to be an idea whose time has clearly come.

Since 9/11 the trend has been toward the kind of family travel that builds memories and creates bonds, so it makes sense that weddings and honeymoons should be part of that family travel experience.

And the Caribbean with its mix of the sensual and the accessible is a perfect place for those tying the knot, again, but who are committed to sharing both the wedding ceremony and honeymoon with their children and extended families.

Canadians Patsy Lever-O’Brien and her husband, Don, chose the Atlantis Resort in the Bahamas. (www.atlantis.com) It was a third marriage for both.

“The staff were terrific,” Patsy says. “They just couldn’t do enough…and they were right there crying with us. And we had adjoining rooms so we had our privacy.”

One of her sons, Adrian, 25, was the best man for her husband.

Don’s daughter, Shannon, 20, was Patsy’s maid of honor.

“The guys did guy things and Shannon and I did shopping and girl things. It was a long time since she had a woman in her life to share with. But when we came together for the wedding, it was a fairy tale come true. We created memories and shared feelings that I never thought possible. It was a wonderful, wonderful event.”

Those couples who have done the big formal wedding once before, in their “salad days,” and have rediscovered love later in life, want something different the second or third time around. “When these folks remarry,” says Rebecca Grinnals, Chairperson of the Caribbean Wedding Association (www.marrycaribbean.com), “they want to include their children in the wedding so they can all begin their new lives together, as a family.”

Echoing Chrissy Strickland, Grinnals says that Familymoons are not  just a wedding or honeymoon between the man and woman. “We’re seeing Familymoons really grow because they’re the perfect way to blend families and seal the new relationship.”

But how do the couple balance the need for intimacy and romance with all this “family togetherness”?

After all, it is a marriage.

Familymooners like the Lever-O’Briens  emphasize that the venue has to have flexible accommodations, and a range of activities suitable for everyone.

This might mean the resort has separate villas or adjoining suites, or at least connecting rooms…so there can be privacy, romance, and togetherness.

Familymoons serve a sociological purpose too, it seems. According to Dr. Marjorie Engel, board member at the Stepfamily Association of America (www.saafamilies.org) there are now as many stepfamilies as “intact” families.

The association says a whopping 65 percent of remarriages are now bringing children into the new relationship.

Experts say Familymoons ease the transition into new families because parents today don’t want to leave their kids behind when they get married.

And the children certainly don’t want to be left behind while their new parents take off without them.

“If the couple getting married doesn’t realize that the wedding has to involve their kids, they seriously need to rethink their union,” adds Strickland

Also, with the average age of the first time grandparent in this country just 48 years old, it’s easy to bring together grandparents, kids, grandkids and siblings into the marrying experience.

 

 

 

The Brady bunch may be going Caribbean, but the islands aren’t the only place where Familymoon bells are ringing.

Julie Mendonca married Thomas Ross at Pointe Hilton Resorts in Phoenix, Arizona.

And they stayed to enjoy their honeymoon, a three-day celebration of their new beginning as a family…with their families.

Thomas’ three sons were on hand to experience the event, and Julie’s son was groomsman. “I also had my parents with us,” she said, “and Thomas had his brothers. We spent a lot time together, and it was wonderful!”

Mendonca says she chose the Hilton first and foremost because it was an “exceptional vacation” place.

You have to find a place,” she says, “that’s elegant because it is your wedding, and it has to be romantic, but it has to also have the kinds of activities the entire family can enjoy.”

Her advice for would-be Familymooners: “Have plenty of patience, good humor, and find a place that’s great vacation place like Pointe Hilton.”

To which Julie Mazza agrees.

Julie, husband Tom and daughter Karryn (10), were married at Pointe Hilton, but all three opted to Familymoon at Disney World.

She too says it’s critical to choose a wedding and honeymoon destination that’s family friendly if the Familymoon is to work. “We found that hotels that cater to conventions and businesses are not able to provide the activities and kind of service that a new family celebrating together needs.”

Is the Familymoon just another quirky travel trend?

Not according to Andee Oleno, Director of Public Relations at the two Pointe Hilton Resorts.

They’ve had at least thirty Familymoons at their property since September 2004, and she expects many more in 2005.

“Really, it’s quite special,” she says. “You’ve got the kids taking part in the ceremony. You have, say, a daughter discussing with her mom or step mom-to-be how they should walk down the aisle.  Things like that.”

But for David Kritzer, a New York attorney, and his bride, Anne Marie Brin, it was Beaches in Turks and Caicos that stole their hearts.

 “We looked for a place that was kid and family friendly, that had lots of quality activities and that was beautiful…and came up with Beaches,” Kritzer said.

As a sign of the times, Beaches Resorts (www.beaches.com) have given birth to a uniquely designed Familymoon Package which includes complimentary room upgrades, bride and groom massages and family portraits.

It was David and Anne Marie’s second marriage, and there was no way they were not involving their children.

“We were becoming a new family,” David said, “and this was the most important day of our lives. A blessed event. It was unthinkable that our children would not participate in the wedding and the honeymoon afterwards.”

So Sam (8), David’s son, and Alexa (6) and Emily (4), Ann Marie’s daughters were flower girls, ring bearers… and right there at the beginning.

There were a set of new-born twins, teens, and all ages in-between.

“Because Beaches has a Day Camp, game room and great beaches,” David says, “it was phenomenal. Just imagine, a marriage and honeymoon wrapped into one…I mean, beginning new life with all the people we love!”

And that, we think, is a pretty good definition of a Familymoon.

 

Kaleel Sakakeeny can be reached at

Kaleels@earthlink.net

 

Advice for Familymooners:

•Everyone in the family needs to be involved in planning the Familymoon, such as deciding who will make the toast or what specific attractions to visit.

•Provide everyone with a disposable camera so the new family can create a “memory book.”

•Choose a neutral destination, not one where either parent has spent a family vacation or, obviously, a previous honeymoon.

•A sense of humor is a must. As is expecting the unexpected. This is uncharted territory. If things don’t go according to plans, roll with them.

•Be aware that single parents traveling with minors outside the United States must bring proof from the other parent that they have the permission to travel with the child.

•Kids will often become homesick, missing their biological parent or pet, even. Be sure they can phone home or email friends.

•And chose a destination that has significant experience in family travel, preferably Familymoons.

KS